A Individuals Pleaser
I used to pleasure myself on being a chameleon… That meant:
- Being all issues to all individuals
- Adjusting my likes and dislikes to theirs
- Saying, doing what I believe they wish to hear or see..
Ugh!! It was exhausting! And I didn’t notice what I do know now- there’s a title for it and it’s referred to as “individuals pleasing”
It’s such a straightforward lure to fall into! I imply…
- We wish to be appreciated
- We wish to slot in
- We don’t wish to create issues…
However there’s a big downside with individuals pleasing. There may be big price.
- We overlook who WE are
- We lose the genuine model of ourselves
- We don’t know what we actually like or don’t
- We cease going for our desires.
With individuals pleasing you’re doing one thing you THINK is correct.
You don’t know it’s hurting you however it’s.
How are you aware you’re doing this??
You end up saying YES if you imply no.
You end up altering your beliefs, your plans, your concepts due to another person
You are concerned about what others THINK and it controls your thoughts and retains it in that loop of self doubt!
The issue with all this? The issue with PEOPLE PLEASING is It pushes you additional and additional away out of your genuine self and also you begin to lose monitor of who YOU actually are and what YOU really need and want.
You aren’t too outdated and it’s not too late to vary this sample…
Recognizing it’s the FIRST STEP…
On the opposite facet of it? Freedom to really be YOU.